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Communication, Motivation

4 Signs That People Have Stopped Growing Mentally When Getting Older

Written by Jay Hill
Jay writes about communication and happiness on Lifehack.
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Does everyone improve with age?

Just because someone has grown into middle or old age doesn’t mean that they have continued to grow as an individual.  It is easy to remain in one’s comfort zone and preferred ways of doing everyday tasks. This can cause unnecessary stress when someone is forced to experiment with new ways of working.

For example, a worker who is accustomed to carrying out their tasks in a certain way at work may become irritated or uncomfortable when someone suggests them to change the way they work.

Signs that someone is stuck in their comfort zone

There are a few key signs to watch for that can help you discern whether you have become a little too entrenched in your comfort zone. You can also look out for these signs in your older co-workers and acquaintances.

1. They trust their own experiences more than anything else

Do you know someone who tends to overlook sensible potential solutions to a problem in favor of their extensive past experience? Of course, it is a good idea to reflect and learn from the past, but it is important to realize that the world is constantly changing and what worked well in the past may not apply to the present.

For example, a worker who has been working in marketing for several decades may overlook the potential of digital marketing in favor of more old-school print-based methods. This could be detrimental to the results of the company.

2. They only focus on efficiency and overlook effectiveness

Older people who like to stay in their comfort zone may focus on how quickly they can complete a task, rather than the quality of the end result. For example, they may focus on crossing tasks off a do-to list rather than considering whether they have carried out each job to the best of their ability.

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They may also be resistant to the suggestions of other people regarding how a particular job may be executed to a higher standard, especially if acting on these suggestions would entail making significant changes to the way they usually work.

3. They like doing repetitive and operational tasks

For a person who has become stuck in their comfort zone, repetitive and operational tasks requiring minimal creativity are more appealing than those that necessitate innovation.

For instance, they may prefer tasks such as cleaning and keeping track of basic accounts to brainstorming new ideas or helping outline the aims of an exciting new project. Doing so helps them feel safe. In repeating the same tasks day after day, they create for themselves the illusion that nothing unexpected will come along and surprise them. This can minimize feelings of anxiety.

4. They tend to judge others rather focus on improving themselves

One of the key foundations for personal growth is the ability to channel one’s energies into self-improvement rather than passing judgment on what other people are doing. Those who want to go beyond their comfort zones know that the only way to better themselves is to take an honest ongoing inventory of their strengths and weaknesses.

People who are resistant to change typically find the prospect of self-examination daunting. Instead, they often spend their time looking for weakness in others and passing negative judgments. For instance, if a coworker tries a new method of working on a problem and does not immediately succeed, someone stuck in their comfort zone is likely to judge them harshly rather than praise them for their attempts at innovation.

Conclusion

Knowing the signs that someone is stuck in their comfort zone can help both you and others to continue along the path of personal growth at all stages of life. Sometimes, a degree of self-awareness is all that is needed to get back on track and remain open to new ways of thinking and behaving.

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