You have to learn to say no without feeling guilty. Setting boundaries is healthy. You need to learn to respect and take care of yourself.
It’s so hard to say β€œno”.

Why?

It makes us feel selfish, guilty, embarrassed even. We don’t want to upset people. We don’t want them to think badly of us. Sometimes it’s simply easier to say β€œyes,” than to deal with our angst or other people’s reactions. But what is this behavior costing us?

Why You Need to Say No! More Often