Quick question: What really differentiates the successful individual who seems to be getting along fine from the highly successful individual who’s in the media all the time?
Is it the extra work they put in which the other person just couldn’t do? Or perhaps it’s the connections the highly successful person has?
After following some of the highly successful people in my industry, I’ve come to discover that while the difference between them and the successful ones may not be so evident, there’s that thin line that separates them.
Highly successful people have different priorities, unique perspectives and better ways of doing things. They don’t become different people, but they become better than just being successful.
Here are 15 things that most people do that highly successful people don’t:
1. They have an inner drive for accomplishment
They love being active and getting things done. But their activity oftentimes leads them to taking on more than they can chew – They also have an inner drive for excellence.
All successful people are determined to work harder and get things done. However, they try as much as possible to only get the right things done because they understand prioritization and goals.
2. They have great teams to help them with their goals
But because of their drive, they often tend to expect over delivery from their teams.
Highly successful individuals not only gave great teams but know how to relate well with them. They can communicate their thoughts and intentions very well. They understand that the well-being of their team members contributes immensely to their success. So they have empathy while also delivery results.
3. They try to accomplish a ton of work in as little time possible
Even if it means extending the day to 30 hours, they’d love it. For this reason, they tend to be too focused on work and neglect the other important things in life.
Highly successful people understand that their time is very precious. They also understand that apart from work, their relationships are valuable. So they create time to spend with the important people in their lives while at the same time making good use of the 24 hours they have available. They know the importance of having down time and rest.
4. They tend to talk a lot about themselves
In any gathering, they would be the ones handing out business cards and trying to set up meetings.
Highly successful people on the other hand look for key relationships in that gathering they could form. They don’t try to be everywhere, but lock in specific relationships that could greatly contribute to their success.
5. They understand that difficulties are part of every business
Highly successful individuals also understand this, but are very careful in handling them. Twice a year, Bill Gates would go into seclusion for a whole week alone, thinking up new ideas and finding better ways to solve problems. Then he would return to Microsoft with genius innovations that even the successful people in the company would be amazed by.
6. They are passionate about what they do and pursue their goals with determination and zest
Highly successful individuals also have passion as a backbone, but are careful to direct that fire in the right direction. Passion has a way of making you want to do many things at once. Highly successful people understand this and fuel their passion with care.
7. They try to please as many people as possible, so they tend to say yes to almost everything
Highly successful people understand that pleasing everyone could be detrimental to their personal goals. So ‘No’ is often part of their vocabulary and they only say ‘Yes’ to activities and causes that are aligned with their goals, whether it is learning a new skill, building quality relationships or just having a good time.
8. They understand the importance of learning and look for new avenues.
The highly successful individuals learn from everything including their mistakes and those made by others. They understand the negative effect of complacency and strive to learn something new every day, even if it’s from just walking the dog down the street.
9. They sometimes like to be heard and that’s okay
Highly successful individuals prefer to listen first before speaking. They listen to the people around them to get the unsaid ideas and tips. They only speak once they have a full grasp of what is being talked about or when they have immense value to share. To them, silence is golden in specific situations.
10. They love to work and don’t necessarily see the importance of other activities where work isn’t involved
Highly successful individuals know the importance of taking care of themselves. They understand that they are the only ones who can achieve their goals. So they include things like exercise, meditation and adequate sleep to their routine.
11. They are very confident in themselves and in what they do…
But this confidence doesn’t stop them from comparing their level of success with others.
Highly successful individuals don’t give room for self-consciousness or comparison. They’re confident in what they do and understand that’s the only way other people can be confident in them. They’d rather be the benchmark than make someone else the benchmark.
12. They often monitor and get obsessed with competition
They always want to know what the competition is doing so they can do it better.
Highly successful individuals are more focused on themselves and aren’t worried about what the competition is doing. Instead, they think about what they can do differently.
13. They take negative criticism to heart…
but not the highly successful ones. They welcome criticism because it helps them grow and achieve their goals.
14. They want to see the results of their efforts fast, so they work really hard to make that happen
The highly successful individuals understand that delayed gratification is an important ingredient of success. They understand that success doesn’t happen overnight and so have the patience and perseverance to wait.
15. They tend to take the bulk of their work on themselves perhaps due to lack of personnel or finance
The highly successful individuals are very resourceful. When starting a new business, they’re able to acquire the money or the personnel required to make their dreams a reality.
What are your thoughts on these difference between successful and highly successful individuals?
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