You are scrolling through your Instagram or Facebook newsfeed and see a picture of the chubby nerd from your high-school in a body-building contest. That girl who sat next to you in 9th grade Chemistry? She's married and about to pop out her first kid. And then there's always that one person with the humble-brag post about their condo downtown that they can afford with their new higher-paying job.
Being in your 20s can make you question whether or not you are
successful at life - you have expectations to live up to! However, while you may not be married, or living in your own loft in a trendy area of your city, you are still doing well in your 20s if:
1. You graduated school
Hey, it may have taken you 3 years, or you may have done several victory laps, but at least you've got a degree under your belt! Currently
only 19% of Millennials have college degrees!
2. You've got a job
You buffed up the resume, nailed the
interview, and are currently employed. It's nice to have a job that pays you enough to have a little money in your pocket. Now you can splurge on the $15 bottle of wine versus the $2 Buck Chuck from your local Trader Joes.
3. Your bills aren't under your parents' names
Congratulations on making your own payments towards your cell phone! Or electric... or credit card. It's hard, but with budgeting apps such as
Mint and Mvelopes, you can stay on top of your finances and make sure all of your bills are paid on time.
4. You don't live at your parents' house
This is acceptable right out of college to save some
money - however, nothing is less cool than telling your friends you have to get home early because of your parents. Do you know whats nicer than living at your parents' house? Not having a curfew. And not having to tell anyone where you're going.
5. You no longer survive on Ramen Noodles
You can now afford to go out to eat several times a month
AND make yourself a dinner that doesn't come pre-packaged. Want to splurge on that brie at the grocery store?
Do it - you can finally afford it.
6. You have savings
Whether it is through your employer's 401(k) program, or you've stashed some cash away in a savings account, you have enough money to spend on emergencies, vacations, or that shiny new X-Box whenever you need it. You may have enough left over to be able to throw in an extra game as well.
7. You have long-term goals
Your goals no longer include marrying celebrities or becoming a professional basketball player (
5'8" just won't cut it), but instead center on
career advancement, investing, and personal insight. Maybe you want to become a manager at your company, or one day open your own restaurant! You are at the beginning of your journey, but know that taking the right path now can help you to get to where you ultimately want to be.
8. You can travel whenever you want to
Got a long weekend? Drive to the beach. Want to see that concert in Red Rocks? Catch a flight! Craving snacks at 1:00 AM? Head to the grocery store! The world is your oyster - go where your schedule and budget allows!
9. You schedule your own doctor's appointments
Okay. Maybe this one is for your 30s...
10. You have experience
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions. You've made it through college, you've made it through getting you first job, and you have your own place. Though still young and thriving, you've got some
life experience and you're wiser than you were yesterday. That counts for something!
