When your sister leaves the home and moves on to her new world you can’t help but miss her and wish she was a part of your world forever. She did so much for you that it is impossible not to cherish the memorable moments. Whether it was when she took charge of the kitchen or when she baby sitted you, you had a gladdening bond with her. That is why it is so difficult not to understand certain things when you have a sister.
1. They are brutally honest with you
If you are not well dressed or you have been played unfairly, they will tell you just the way it is. They were so brutally honest you felt they were some sort of angel watching over you. They really did know how to throw those stiff words at you to make you always self-aware.
2. They have seen your good, bad and ugly moments
They won’t judge you. They accepted you for you are, from your flaws to your strengths. They could relate with who you were whether during your up or your down times.
3. They are such an emotional soul
There is something about having a feminine to lean on when there are challenging times. They would always be there to listen. And they did it with so much emotions and depth.
4. They offer you the greatest hugs
Perhaps even better hugs than you will get from your parents. They always have the sweetest cuddles and they know just the perfect moment to offer it to you.
5. They are your first line of defense
Somehow they always have your back. Perhaps they just relish the role of screening every other person that will come into your life.
6. They cracked the best jokes
Yes, jokes about family members and neighbors who are weird. They seemed to have a rounder perspective of everyone around you, and they made some humor out of it.
7. They were your number one motivational speaker
Yes they were your number one cheerleader and motivator. They really knew how to fire you up even when the odds were stacked against you.
8. They shared everything with you
They shared their closet with you. They didn’t make you ever feel alone. They wanted you to always have that sense of belonging, that indeed you had someone who you could count on.
9. They never looked down on you
Actually, they made you feel like the grown up one, because they were the ones who always took the blame rather than you. And if you had to take blame, you made them partake in the hurting too.
10. They always had an answer to your problems
It may not be the best solution available, but they will never allow you to deal with a problem alone. They would offer some advice or a way out of your challenges.
11. They know when you are lying
They could read you like a book. They understood all your body patterns and will tell you to your face that you are bullshitting if you are.
12. They were your number one confidante
They listened to your dirty little stories and knew those dirty secrets you will never tell anyone. Somehow you felt they would never betray you, and they never did.
13. They never forget your special days
Yea they would surprise you on special days, your graduation day or your birthday. They would not only remember such days and moments, they also made them special.
14. They fought you for the simplest things
When you had disputes, it was about little things. It was either about who was going to take out the trash or who got the best toys.
15. They never held grudges with you
Fights came and went. They never stayed. It was difficult for them to stop talking to you or not being there for you. They were always willing to let go and move on with you.
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