How would you rate your relationship on a scale of 1-10? If you answered "5" or less, you are in a bad relationship that needs some fixing.
Would you describe your life with your significant other as a routine? Nothing is more boring than monotony. Here's five easy ways to give your relationship a little OOMPH!
If you find word vomit escaping your lips, one of those hurtful things you know you're going to regret saying later, hold it in and count to ten. Breathe in. Breathe out. Still want to say it? Go for it. Not so much? Crisis averted.
Would you describe your life with your significant other as a routine? Nothing is more boring than monotony. Here's five easy ways to give your relationship a little OOMPH!
1. Make time for each other.
Absence is rumored to make the heart grow fonder, but that doesn't mean your relationship can thrive without any time devoted to it. Life gets busy, especially if you have kids/school/a job/a second job and OMG, ALL THE THINGS; but your relationship is a priority no matter how full your plate may be. Have a daily, 10-minute mini-date where you snuggle up with a silly YouTube video, take a quick walk, have some ice cream, or whatever you both enjoy.2. Switch up date-night.
Dinner-and-a-movie is a staple for a reason (because it's fun), but it can grow stale without the occasional mix-up. For example: You could grab coffee or hot cocoa, go to a park on a breezy day and find yourself with a perfect excuse to cuddle.3. Take an adventure.
Do something exciting together! You could take a cruise, go on a road-trip, jump out of a plane, visit a rain forest, or climb Mt. Everest.4. Learn something new.
Tackle a hobby of mutual interest with your partner. Whether you want to learn to speak Italian, become a Jeopardy contestant or create handmade jewelry is up to you. Challenging yourselves to grow will strengthen your bond and shake-up your ho-hum love life.5. Create a Bucket List.
Make a list of all the crazy, ambitious, and wonderful things you want to do with your partner. Be happy you have someone to share your life with. Take small steps to make your Bucket List items happen.6. Count to 10 when you're angry.
There is no reason to bottle up our feelings in relationships. I know you might be intimidated by conflict, but there is no hiding from it. Sure, you could just keep saying "nothing is wrong," but that would only delay the inevitable. Feelings that are held in have a way of intensifying. Pissed off? Take a deep breath and let's deal with it:If you find word vomit escaping your lips, one of those hurtful things you know you're going to regret saying later, hold it in and count to ten. Breathe in. Breathe out. Still want to say it? Go for it. Not so much? Crisis averted.
7. See it from the other side.
“It was a great surprise to me when I discovered that most of the ugliness I saw in others, was but a reflection of my own nature." -AnonymousBefore you criticize another person, take a second to look at the scenario from their perspective. Most people act the way they do for a reason. See yourself in their eyes to make sure the problem doesn't reside in yourself.